What a day...

What a day yesterday was. Tyler's surgery didn't go quite as we expected. When the surgeons got to the tumor they found that it had gone through the colon and into the stomach. That obviously complicates the situation. They had to take the lower part of his stomach along with approximately two-thirds of his colon. He has what they call a "midline incision" which means he will have a "wicked, awesome" scar. Needless to say, he didn't get the tummy tuck he had asked for. He also ended up with an NG tube and a catheter both of which should be classified as "cruel and unusual punishment." He has an epidural catheter in his back for pain management and it seems to be working quite well. He was able to stand at the bedside a couple of times yesterday and even took a few steps in his room. Hopefully the catheter and NG tube will be removed later today so he can rest better. The fact that the tumor had spread now makes the cancer a stage IV and so the treatments will have to be much more agressive than we had originally planned. We are still waiting to talk with the Oncologist after he receives the pathology reports. Tyler has received several beautiful Priesthood blessings and we recognize that our Heavenly Father will determine the course of events. Tyler is strong and determined and we have great support from our families and friends. We have had so many thoughtful gestures already and we appreciate them so very much. Please remember us in your prayers and thank you for all the love and support that you have show to us. "Don't quit when the night is darkest it's just a while 'til dawn."